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- 11-07-2012 08:39 AM #21
I hate to tell you but.....The worrying never stops. Now that you're a parent, you'll be worrying about your daughter for a long-long time. Actually, the worrying goes on forever!
- 11-07-2012 08:39 AM # ADS
- 11-07-2012 12:08 PM #22
- 11-12-2012 12:03 PM #23
Yes definitely, I can understand that it would be a very very worrying experience for you at the moment. I have heard that its extremely unique too. You get a feeling that there is something which is actually yours.
Why has that gastric reflux problem occurred to her? Do you and your wife make sure that she burps properly every time after she takes her feed? Is she being breastfed by her mom?
Your last paragraph gives me the impression that the "worrying" factor is always associated there with your own progeny; it just changes its forms. lol.....
This "worrying" is actually the single hindering element in my decision of getting married.....lol.....SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO EVERYONE YOU WANT TO, BEFORE ITS TOO LATE !
- 11-12-2012 12:16 PM #24
Oh, and worrying about marriage? Nah... That's easy... That's what the bachelor party if for LOL... They get you good and stonkered, drop you at the altar give you a good cup of coffee to sober you up for the 30 seconds you need to mumble "I do" you collapse and wake up in the matrimonial bed, your new wife giving you a delicious cup of coffee and scolding you for dancing like an idiot....
- 11-13-2012 11:48 AM #25
OMG, I am very afraid of marriage. Let me admit it, people !
I AM AFRAID OF MARRIAGE.
I feel that getting married will end my freedom and I will be masked under mountains of responsibilities. I do want to get married but I don't want to take up any kind of responsibilities. Yes, this is true, I know its not something very nice and appreciable but I am being honest in my opinion.SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO EVERYONE YOU WANT TO, BEFORE ITS TOO LATE !
- 11-14-2012 07:12 AM #26
Yeah... I got cold feet the night before my marriage too... Although, truth be told, freedom is over rated.
Sure we like to be free, but for me, being alone when you go to sleep at night, or when you wake up in the morning is not a really good trade off. You say you are afraid of marriage, everyone is... But it becomes less scary when you find the right person Not that you stop being afraid, but it gets to be a little less, and really, what freedom are you afraid of losing?
Being able to go out every night and hook up with a stranger? Having to "strut your stuff" for someone new all the time is tiring...
Not having responsibilities.. What responsibilities are new? I mean, single or not, you still need to pay bills, take care of the place you live, work, shower, etc... So what's changing?
When you look at it that way, it makes it worthwhile too.. I mean, I used to not really have a reason to get up in the morning, or work, or do anything.. No incentive.. Being married gave me the incentive to get up, and be a better person. Made me more responsible lol...
I guess you could really say is that you are afraid of change... You are comfortable with the way your life is right now, and that's OK. However, the only constant in life is change my friend.. And not to worry, when you find the right person, you won't mind the change so much.
Sort of like that Metallica Song "Nothing Else Matters"... Great song...
- 11-14-2012 11:56 AM #27
Wow! I am totally impressed!
- 11-14-2012 12:07 PM #28
Just telling it like it is..
Of course, not the same for everyone, some are just "born to be wild" Although in my experience, those that are, aren't afraid of marriage because they have no intention of ever doing it.. Strange how the mind works huh?
- 11-14-2012 12:24 PM #29
By the way, I really liked what you said when you wrote, "I guess you could really say is that you are afraid of change... You are comfortable with the way your life is right now, and that's OK. However, the only constant in life is change my friend"
- 11-14-2012 01:14 PM #30
Ah, Well, Well, Well !
Let me start by admitting that I am afraid that whatever you wrote in your post is quite right.
What is the guarantee that he/she is the right person with whom you are going to get married? Finding the right person for yourself is perhaps the most difficult part of life. I really agree that it definitely gets less scary if and when you find that right person. However, what if you are not able to find that right person in your life? And how would I know that a certain person is right for me. I think that it is extremely difficult to trust on people in today's world. Again, if I don't trust a person, how would I find that right person.
I admit that hooking up with some stranger every time is also not a good option but I don't do that. I do not believe in doing that.
I am afraid of the new responsibilities such as taking care of your wife, looking after her, being courteous to her all the time, giving her extra care if she is pregnant. I am afraid of being interrogated all the time, where was I? Why didn't I pick the call first time? Who are my friends?
I am afraid of not being able to fulfill my daily, recommended sleeping requirements. I know it sounds stupid but that is my concept and I might be totally wrong. I am afraid of kids, I truly am. Responsibilities of making your kids responsible citizens, good students, charming individuals and so on seem to be extremely exhausting to me.SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO EVERYONE YOU WANT TO, BEFORE ITS TOO LATE !
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