BAD ARSE UPDATE
Just wanted to share with my "coffee friends" (that's what I call you!)... You all offered so much support, via the board and PM that I had to pass this on:
I saw the landlord today at the store while we were hanging our "coming soon" signs. He told me that the plans for Bad Ass Coffee for across the street must have fallen through because they keep calling my landlord and called yet again today, looking to rent space in the same shopping center as me, claiming that *I* wouldn't care because it wouldn't be a conflict since they aren't a coffee place like me, that they serve breakfast. But they are called "Bad Ass Coffee".
The good news is that I have an exclusivity clause in my lease, so after a little research my landlord quickly realized that they would be in conflict with us and probably realized I would sue his arse (no pun, really).
So, on a personal note, the ever-underestimated, not-so-dumb-blonde Anne, scores a point tonight with the husband. After much research, I requested my landlord include that clause in the lease. And THAT is why you have to soak up all you can from those around you--thank you! It could have been devastating to us.
ETA: My husband said of you take away the "a$$" all you have is Bad Coffee. Teeheehee. Normally, I don't have a problem with a franchise, just thought that was witty for him!