I read back a little on the post after my initial posting, and it seems that maybe some other people agree that there are some societal differences at work between the USA and Europe, and my experience shows me that it doesn't get limited to just coffee shops/tea houses.
In Europe, in almost any city or even village center (and I speak more from experience in Austria, Germany, Switzerland, and for a little of the North of Italy), people when not working, are out and about town visiting shops, walking for pleasure, relaxing, engaging in good conversation and company with friends, coworkers, etc. and are not rushing around. They are living for the moment and are enjoying what they are doing. This does not mean that this does not happen in the USA at all. I do not live in a place like NY City or Boston, where this might be more prevalent. There is a place near me, or two, where people do this, but it is, in my opinion probably a minority of places in the USA as compared to in Europe. People in the USA may be in coffee shops, but they are rushing, on the move most of the time, hardly enjoying the time that they have there and are rushing off. This is also very true in US restaurants vs. restaurants in the above countries, where people generally stay and spend time with good friends, not leaving as quickly as we do. Waiters and waitresses are not doing the quick turnover like you see in a typical restaurant here in the states. When I was in Munich, in July or so, my wife and I went to visit our friend, going out to eat in her suburb. We got to the restaurant at something like 6:00 or 7:00, and then remained there talking, till the place closed at about 11:00 pm or so. You even see that in the dead of winter, around Christmas time, that Germans and Austrians will be out in the town, socializing on the streets while the year's Christmas Markets are in full force. You will always see that when the weather is even remotely good, that people will use outdoor cafes whenever possible, in preference to sitting inside if they have both facilities. It is my experienced opinion that this street life fuels the patronage of the typical cafes and tea houses, making things seem "better". There's always something to see when in Europe, and you might even run into one of your friends or coworkers doing much the same. If one, is, for example, in Innsbruck, Austria, having coffee in town, you might get the treat of being able to watch some of the street performers working, namely the girl with her silver dress and dog (who wears a hat) that lies down in the basket she has for him, acting like statures, or maybe the guy in silver, acting like a fountain statue, pouring water from his boot.
Danny