A choked extraction won't hurt the Silvia due to it having an Over Pressure Valve that simply diverts that excess pressure, probably back to the water reservoir.
Personally I think many people backflush way too often. Of course it depends on the machine usage. On a commercial level I backflush with detergent at least once weekly and with plain water at least 1-2 times daily. Doing that seems to work just fine. Awhile back I purposely backed off on the detergent flushes, to every 2 weeks I think, and sure enough I started getting a bit of dripping at the group. Went back to my normal regimen and all cleared right up. If I had double or triple the volume of course I'd step it up a notch, but I surely wouldn't do it just for the sake of doing it. It shouldn't be thought of as a ritual, but more a necessity to keep things clean/clear. For your situation I'd do a clean water backflush maybe twice weekly and use detergent monthly.
FWIW, backflushing does nothing for the boiler. Just clears the water pathway between the 3-way solenoid and group. The function of the 3-way is to release pressure right after the extraction is complete. The release of this pressure pulls coffee oils, some stray grounds, etc. up into this water pathway and into your drip tray, but over time can cause these areas to become clogged, especially the solenoid plunger itself. This can lead to abnormal brew pressure, dripping at the group and of course some nasty tasting brew.
"Corroded" wouldn't necessarily be a product of hard water, but more along the lines of acidic water, meaning the PH could be too low. Scale in the boiler would be the result of hardness/too much alkalinity more than anything. My suggestion is to get a water test kit/pool test strips and see exactly what is in your water. Even if you have some hardness present all you need to do is a simple citric acid descale every 1-3 months depending on the level of hardness. BTW, those fridge/faucet filters simply remove chlorine, lead, etc. They do nothing for hardness, PH, etc. Later!